WHO has the right to tell another person how to grieve for a loved one, or how to remember them on their gravestone?

If people want statues, windmills etc, then that is their choice and we should respect it.

So when I read a letter in the Shuttle/Times and News on July 17 suggesting a memorial should be placed in the corner of your own garden, I was amazed.

A temptation to thieves and a nuisance to grass cutters? Absolute rubbish.

We should be doing all we can to stop these mindless idiots from defacing/stealing from graveyards, not telling bereaved relatives how to grieve.

ID SALTER

Franche Road

Kidderminster