TOO often for couples, honeymoons are an afterthought to wedding planning.

Renee Duane of Unforgettable Honeymoons says approaching the getaway in this manner is a mistake.

"A honeymoon is an investment in memories for the rest of your life," she says. "Don't take chances with it."

Instead, she recommends starting with a conversation.

"Sit down and talk about the level of luxury and privacy you want, what you want to do every day, and the type of nightlife you desire," says Duane.

Profiles for the perfect honeymoon include:

Tan fans: Those partial to surf and turf need to get on the same wavelength when choosing where to share a beach blanket. Social creatures who thrive on team sports might prefer the communal atmosphere of an all-inclusive beach resort but those who prefer their own place in the sun should head to an island retreat with private white-sand beaches.

Adventure fans: If the rumble of the jungle makes the couple roar, choose an eco-adventure in the wilds of a rain forest, get down and dirty on an archaeological dig in Egypt or search out wildebeest on a Serengeti safari.

Fast-lane fanatics: For anyone living on the cutting edge or enjoying visiting museums and the theatre, then a city destination such as New York or romantic Venice should fit the bill.

Pampered: Anyone wanting to be spoilt during their honeymoon should consider a spa resort where plenty of relaxing treatments are on offer for both him and her, such as massages.

Day trippers: Anyone who likes diversity can explore a country by road or by rail. A honeymoon by train can offer romance aplenty in a luxurious suite with a moving view. Stops are often scheduled along the way and allow couples a chance to explore.

Shipboard romantics: Setting sail on a cruise ship and exploring new worlds might be the ticket to paradise. These mobile hotel-and-spas can transport couples to exotic locations.